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Victory Dancing

How would you describe your victory dance?

Happy Dance

That’s the question for today straight out of my little Question and Answer a Day book. I love this little book. It’s always fun to open it and find an interesting, amusing, or thought-provoking question.

So, victory dancing…

I laughed a little when I read it because “victory dances” are so closely associated with football — in my mind, at least. That provoked a chuckle because early this morning as I made my way from sleep to wakefulness, I was thinking about professional football, specifically players from the past.

Who was that quarterback for the Pittsburgh Steelers that I liked so well? The one who took the helm after both Terry Bradshaw and Terry Hanratty went down with injuries? I struggled to remember his name and finally had to grab my smartphone to look it up. Yes, at 3:30 AM, I was “googling” Pittsburgh Steeler quarterbacks. The answer, by the way, is Joe Gilliam, Jr. who had a fairly short, unhappy life. He died on Christmas Day, 2000, a few days short of his 50th birthday.

Next, my errant mind wandered to Oakland. Who was that wide receiver back in the 60’s? My mind just was not working. Oh, yes. Daryle Lamonica, the “Mad Bomber”.  I was rather proud of myself for digging that name out of the depths of my memory…until I realized that dear Daryle was not the receiver I was thinking of. It was the other fellow, you know, the one with the Russian name.

By now, my husband was awake, too, so I was pestering him with the question. I had to come in here to MLWR (My Little Writing Room) to dredge up Fred Biletnikoff, but in the process I came across a book I’d love to read.

Badasses: The Legend of Snake, Foo, Dr. Death, and John Madden’s Oakland Raiders

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Victory dances — those little displays of emotions after scoring a touchdown — have always been fun to watch, in my opinion. Of course, my opinion means nothing to the NFL — also known as the No Fun League. They have rules against deliberately “taunting” other players, and in their estimation, victory dances often fall into that category.

In 2006, they “taunting” rule was amended to include an automatic 15-yard penalty against any player whose “victory dance” includes leaving his feet, or using props such as towels or the football. This is termed an “excessive celebration” with the penalty yardage charged to the offending player’s team during the kick-off that follows. The good news here is that “spiking” the ball isn’t considered “excessive” — unless the player spikes it toward an opponent.

Just for fun, here are a few celebrations from the world of sports you might enjoy watching:

A Visual Guide to the NFL’s Anti-Celebration Rules

In my life, I don’t do “victory dances” because I don’t score any touchdowns. For what it’s worth, while growing up, I always wished I could play football, but despite that adage that “You can do anything you set you mind to”, I had to settle for cheerleading on the sidelines.

Of course, I do have many things in life to celebrate, so I’ve replaced the “victory dance” with a little “happy dance”. I love sharing my “happy dance” on Facebook when I have a new romance novel published, or when one of my novels hits the publisher’s best-seller list or gets a five-star review from a reader.

I smile a lot when doing my happy dance. I wave my arms around. I kick up my heels. I shimmy. I shake. I look silly, but as someone recently reminded me, it’s all right to dance like nobody’s watching because everybody’s looking at their cell phones, so in truth no one is watching.

So, whether it’s a victory dance following a score, or just a happy dance to celebrate the special moments in your life, what does your dance look like?

 


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Tweet, Tweet

Are you on Twitter? I am, although I don’t actively keep up with tweets going by. I don’t see how anyone could. All the same, it’s almost a matter of pride with me to say that I was on Twitter before most folks — my children included — had even heard of it.

Yes, I post regularly to Twitter, but only because my account is connected to my Facebook page. Anything I post on my Facebook timeline goes out into the twitter-sphere as well. I’m also “following” a lot of folks on Twitter, but seriously, folks, who’s got time to sit and read hundreds of messages as they scroll by?

All the same, I must confess I’ve had a lot of fun on Twitter. I remember the “duck” game. Oh, how I laughed. It’s the simple game of taking a famous quote and replacing a word with “duck”.  Imagine, for example, Teddy Roosevelt proclaiming, “Walk softly, and carry a big duck.” Or, for laughs, former president Bill Clinton informing the world that he did not “have sex with that duck.”  I remember contributing Richard Nixon’s immortal words: “I am not a duck.”

We kept the game going on Twitter for days. It was great fun.

NietoAnother Twitter-fest that kept me hanging on was the time Mexico’s presidential hopeful — and now president — Enrique Pena Nieto — fumbled on a television program when asked to name a few of the books that had influenced him in his life. He couldn’t think of any other than the Bible, and he managed to confuse a few authors’ names.

But that was only the beginning of his problems.

His teen daughter Paulina turned to her Twitter account and using very offensive slang terms and racial slurs, attempted to defend her father. Her tweet went viral then spun off into thousands of hilarious tweets, such as the game of “Books Pena Nieto Should Read.” My favorite? “How to ruin your father in 140 characters or less.”

The daughter’s boyfriend also jumped into the fray, Paulina made her apologies, and her Twitter account quickly disappeared. You can read about it here.

LA Times – Reporting from Mexico City.

And then, of course, there’s Alec Baldwin. I stopped “following” him long ago after yet another of his Twitter rants. He’s still at it, I see.

Alec Baldwin Arrested In New York – Turns to Twitter

So, why am I posting about Twitter? It’s because of today’s question in my little Q & A a Day” book.

In 140 characters, or fewer, summarize your day.

Yes, technology today is everywhere, and the Internet Culture now influences virtually (no pun intended) all we do.

My day is just beginning, but I suppose I could tweet my plans…in fact, I just did. If you follow me, you’ll find my little post:

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Thanks for visiting today.

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Make a Mess!

Creativity

I say these words over and over because they’re so very true. I don’t recall the source, but I do remember when I first heard them. I was sitting on the living room floor, surrounded by a mess of papers, drawings, art supplies, books, and snacks as I worked on a project. Yes, creative people make big messes.

It was then as I began the “cleaning up” process that I fully understood this little saying. As I sorted through ideas and inspirations — keeping some and discarding others — my mess turned into a completed project.

I approach fiction from this perspective, too. I make a huge mess with story ideas all over the place. I scribble notes on odd scraps of paper. I grab research books to keep close at hand. Putting a story together does get very messy indeed.

For what it’s worth, my current project — The Sheriff Wore Skirts — is a disastrous mess at the moment. Even though I began with a synopsis for the publisher, now that I’m working on the story, I’m seeing new possibilities. New characters are emerging. New complications and conflicts are happening.

What do I do?  I let it happen. It’s wondrous fun.

To me, it’s much like working a jigsaw puzzle…only first, I have to create all the pieces.

I won’t use them all. As with any creative project, I’ll find myself throwing away things that aren’t needed, sorting out what’s right for the story, getting rid of ideas that don’t fit. Gradually, the mess will be picked up. The research books will go back on the shelf. The little scraps of paper will be tossed aside. A finished manuscript will come together, ready to go to the publisher.

Don’t ever get discouraged when your creative efforts result in a huge mess. That’s how it’s supposed to be. It’s a process, and making a mess — the bigger, the better — is the first step toward success. Celebrate all the mixed-up, confused ideas. Scatter the pieces of your own puzzle around so you can look at them from different angles. Pick things up and play with them. Enjoy the mess!

Then begin the cleaning-up process. Throw away or set aside things you know you don’t need. Find what’s most important and build around it. Add in possibilities that might work. Discard ones that don’t work.

Slowly and surely, as you clean up the mess — whether it’s an art project, a poem you’re writing, a recipe you’re cooking, or any other endeavor — you’ll see a beautiful creation shining through.

 

 


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Playing by the Rules

I’ve been browsing through The Writer’s Guide to Character Traits, written by pyschologist Linda Edelstein. It’s an interesting book, and I’ve enjoyed reading about various adult personality types.

I’ve always believed that understanding is a key component of good relationships — in real life and in fiction, as well. So from time to time, I’m going to share a bit of information regarding Edelstein’s basic personality types. Perhaps this knowledge will help us build stronger relationships — and for the writers among us, create realistic characters.

Today, I’m sharing a few thoughts about conformists.

Conformity2The conformist believes in following rules and regulations, going along with others, and acting in a responsible manner.

Conformists are staunch supporters of law and order in society, and generally consider themselves to hold high moral standards.

Life with a conformist can be comfortable. These folks don’t like to “rock the boat” or make a fuss about anything…unless someone goes too far afield of their traditional beliefs and values, in which case the conformist can become rigid and dogmatic. They will then insist on upholding what they perceive as “right”.  They can be extremely intolerant, demanding that others conform to their way of thinking.

There’s a bit of interesting history behind the word, Conformist.

In England, Conformists were individuals whose religious practices were in line with the requirements of The Act of Uniformity. These acts — there were several — established rites and rituals for the Church of England, specifying prayers books to be used and the order of services performed.  Those who opposed the acts were called Noncomformists.

Today the words have come to mean anyone who “goes along with the crowd” or one who “marches to a different drum”, respectively.

Our society sends very mixed messages about conformity. We place children in classrooms and teach them to behave in very specific ways. We give them rules to obey.

  • Sit at your desk.
  • Raise your hand to ask a question.
  • Walk in single file as you leave the classroom.

At the same time, we speak of individuality, the need to recognize our own uniqueness, and the importance of learning to think for oneself.  Little wonder we’re often confused about who we are…and who we’re supposed to be.

Overall, despite our efforts to teach it and instill conformist values in our children, conformity gets a bad rap throughout history.  Ralph Waldo Emerson spoke out against it.

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So did President John Fitzgerald Kennedy.

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Conformists rarely stand out in society. They’re content to follow others and can make valuable assistants, always well-versed in “company policy” and willing to do what’s asked of them.

In fiction, we find two kinds of conformists. We sometimes see a character who is intent on following all the rules — to the detriment of their own happiness. My latest release, “No Regrets“,  features a shy young woman who, in the words of the hero, is stuck being…

“…the prim and proper Miss Richards, the quiet little mouse who never disturbs anybody, has never once told a lie, and who would never think of breaking any of society’s rules.”
We see the overbearing conformist at times, too, in the guise of a well-meaning parent or a moral leader. As conformists, they often join others in their intolerance.  I’ve included these characters in my stories, too, most notably the women of the “Ladies’ Charitable Society” in my fictional town of Sunset, Colorado.  Here’s a quick look at the ladies, from “Keeping Faith“.
Not only Mrs. Gilman, but all the other women as well wore black. They reminded Tom of a bunch of crows perching in the parlor, hovering about, ready to peck the eyes out of him and his mother if they made a wrong move.
Maybe conformity is best treated as a useful tool, not as a way of life. There are times and places where perhaps it’s best to go along,  to do what’s expected, and to accept little things that aren’t really worth making a fuss about.

Yes, rules are important. So are laws.  Sometimes we do need to follow others…so long as they’re leading us in the direction we want to go.

When all is said and done, the most important thing is knowing who we are and living our life fully.
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Clothes Make the Man…or Woman

poloniusFor the apparel oft proclaims the man.

–William Shakespeare, Hamlet 

 

When Polonius gives out advice in Hamlet, much of it should probably be taken with the proverbial grain of salt. Polonius was a bit of a blow-hard, a fellow who loved the sound of his own voice.

His immortal words have been transformed into the more modern adage that “clothes make the man,” to which Mark Twain once added, “Naked people have little or no influence on society.”

I’m not sure about that, but all of that’s a bit beside the point. The real question for today isn’t about the influence we wield but simply about the clothes we wear. More to the point, the clothes we love.

Often on Facebook, question games go around. Example: The last thing you ate plus the color you’re now wearing gives you your rock band name.  I usually end up with Plaid nachos. Hey, it’s kinda catchy, don’t you think?

If clothes really do make us who we are, I’m a comfortable, casual homebody. I love wearing baggy old T-shirts and flannel PJ bottoms. Yes, that’s me. It’s exactly who I am.

Today’s question from my little “Q & A A Day” book is this:

What’s your favorite article of clothing?

PJSI’d have to say my comfy, cozy plaid flannel PJ bottoms.  Years ago I bought one set (the ones on the left) and I loved them so much, I ordered a second set (the ones on the right.) I found them in the Lakeside Collection catalog, and would gladly order more if they had different colors.

I also like my Mickey Mouse T-shirt, my worn-out old sneakers, and, when the weather turns cool, an old sweatshirt that once boasted of the glories of Missouri but whose colors are now so worn you can’t read much of anything.

Obviously, to me, comfort is far more important than fashion.

 

 

What’s YOUR favorite article of clothing?

What do YOUR clothes say about YOU?

 

 


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New Resolutions?

k2-_77d96879-c52e-453f-ab60-ca61b22078b4.v1I think my Question and Answer book is a bit mixed up. It’s only August, yet it’s asking me about resolutions. I’ve heard of “Christmas in July”, so maybe they’re thinking we should have “New Year’s Day in August.” It makes sense in a somewhat crazy way, I suppose.

Here’s the question as it’s posed:

What is your resolution for tomorrow?

Throughout my life, I’ve had a tendency to do things backward. I think being left-handed has something to do with it. Most people, I presume, use this little journal late at night before they shut out the lights and go to bed. Not me. My habit is to grab my journal early in the morning soon after I wake up.  Like I said, yeah, I do a lot of things backward.

So, I’m revising the question a bit. I’m going to think about today and what I’m setting my sights on to accomplish.

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First on the agenda is a bit of housecleaning. Daughter Liz and her husband are moving to California later this month. Before she leaves, she wants to visit with family. She lives about two hours away from us now, and she’ll be driving up early on Friday morning, spending the night here, and then visiting with her sisters nearby. She wouldn’t care if I cleaned house or not, and if the guest room is a bit messy, it wouldn’t bother her in the least. As long as she gets some of Mom’s cooking — and a few popsicles — she’ll be happy. All the same, I want to straighten things up a bit, sweep the floors, and do a little dusting and polishing.

Second on my “to-do” list is writing. I have two more western historical romances under contract with Secret Cravings Publishing, and deadlines have a way of sneaking up. I’m currently working on The Sheriff Wore Skirts, and I’ve reached the point in the process where things are coming together, ideas are developing, and sitting down to write each day is wonderfully fun.

Third will be cooking. Today I’m planning one of my personal favorites. Salmon patties with creamed peas and potatoes. I’ll probably serve it with a spicy tomato drink and toss up a green salad, too. Hurry, dinnertime! I’m hungry already.

Of course, I’m hungry now because I haven’t eaten breakfast yet. I slept late this morning — almost 5 AM. My husband didn’t wake me until he was ready to head out the door. But he did leave breakfast for me. So now that I’ve checked my Question and Answer book and have officially got this day under way, I’m going to go grab a bite to eat.

Happy Wednesday

What’s YOUR resolution for today?


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Traveling the World

Another stormy morning here in the midwest. The house is quiet, I’ve got a cup of hot herbal tea to enjoy, and I’m about to pick up my little “Question and Answer” book and turn to today’s question.

Well, it’s certainly an easy question for me:

How many stamps are in your passport?

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My answer? None. I don’t even have a passport. I’ve never traveled outside the United States except in my imagination and through the pages of books I’ve read.

The closest I’ve come to adding stamps to a passport is in a solitaire game I used to play at Club Pogo — an online game site. I don’t recall the name of the game, but as you win different rounds, you travel to different destinations around the globe, collecting passport stamps as you go.

I’ve never been much of a traveler. Astrologers among us might scoff and say, “But, you’re Sagittarius! You’re supposed to love traveling!”   So much for sun signs, I suppose. For what it’s worth, my Sagittarian-born sister, Jill, has indeed traveled all over the world, and she’s got fascinating stories to tell.

My travels have been mostly short trips, quick visits with friends and family, or a short jaunt to a conference or convention. I’ve been to a few big cities — New York, Chicago, Dallas — and I’ve seen a lot of nature’s beauty in my travels.

I’ve been to the shores of the Great Salt Lake, seen the majesty of Mount Ranier, and have hiked many trails throughout the midwest. I’ve sat high atop the rocky red hills in Arizona, and I’ve fished the crystal clear streams of the Ozarks.

I’ve also visited many historic sites: presidential libraries, museums, art galleries, and landmarks.

By most standards, I’m not well-traveled, and that’s all right with me. I’m more inclined to say “There’s no place like home”, and do my traveling through books, magazines, and, of course, the internet. I do sometimes talk about places I’d like to go. The Black Hills is always high on my list, as is Jumonville Glen in Pennsylvania — a place connected to French and Indian War history. I’d like to visit Oaxaca in Mexico, and going back again to my fascination with the French and Indian War, I’d love to go to Canada and see the imposing sight of Quebec City.

Quebec City on the Saint Lawrence

Quebec City on the Saint Lawrence

While I’m not much of a traveler — domestic or international — I do love to hear travel stories from others. Even better, I love seeing photographs of faraway destinations, places I’ll probably never see in my own life. So, please share your journeys with me.

How many stamps are in YOUR passport?

Where have your travels taken you?

 


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Are You an Adventurer?

I’ve been browsing through The Writer’s Guide to Character Traits, written by pyschologist Linda Edelstein. It’s an interesting book, and I’ve enjoyed reading about various adult personality types.

I’ve always believed that understanding is a key component of good relationships — in real life and in fiction, as well. So from time to time, I’m going to share a bit of information regarding Edelstein’s basic personality types. Perhaps this knowledge will help us build stronger relationships — and for the writers among us, create realistic characters.

Today, let’s look at the Adventurer.

Amelia-EarhartThe adventurer lives on excitement. He or she often takes on “warrior” characteristics. They are always on the go, can be highly competitive, and are often unaware of other people’s feelings. It’s interesting to note that more men than women fall into the Adventurer category, primarily because our culture generally doesn’t support adventurous females.

An exception pointed out by Edelstein is Amelia Earhart. Born in 1897, she became the first female aviator to fly solo across the Atlantic Ocean. She received the U. S. Distinguished Flying Cross for the feat.

In 1937, Earhart disappeared while attempting to complete a flight around the world. Two years later, she was declared dead at the age of 41.

To learn more, visit The Official Website of Amelia Earhart.

Although the Adventurer is an adult personality type, signs of it are usually seen in childhood.  Traits of boldness and risk-taking are apparent even in the very young.

Adventurers often become leaders. They are out-going, fun-loving, and often quite entertaining. On the negative side, though, adventurers can become domineering. They ignore rules, bark out orders, and insist on having things their way.

ekThese are the people who live life in the fast lane. They thrive on excitement and are always seeking thrills, especially involving speed or danger. They enjoy the spotlight and love to “put on a show” for others.

Daredevil Evel Knievel comes quickly to mind when I think of the adventurer personality type. Although his death in 2007 was not from any disaster but from disease — diabetes, pulmonary fibrosis, and hepatitis — he once remarked that he was “nothing but scar tissue and surgical steel.”

To learn more about this colorful, larger-than-life character, check out the story of his life and death from the New York Times.

The New York Times – Evel Knievel Dies

 

Normally thick-headed, Adventurers can become stubborn to a fault. Their confidence can lead them to make poor judgments. At their worst, the Adventurer can be hostile and agressive, and their impulsiveness can put them — and others — in danger.

Adventurers among us may not become pioneers in aviation or death-defying stuntmen, but they will be drawn to exciting careers. Fiction is filled with adventurous men and women. Firefighters, Navy SEALS, ruthless stock-traders, and jet-setting playboys are familiar characters, as are female spies, women in the military, and from stories of days gone by, female bandits, gunslingers, and officers of the law, such as Samantha Reynolds, the heroine of my current work-in-progress, The Sheriff Wore Skirts. 

Life is never dull with an adventurer around. They live on the edge and will take us with them if we’re brave enough to go along.

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What’s For Dinner – Summertime Desserts

If you follow me on Facebook, you might remember my post about making “creamsicles”.   The actual name for the treat is Orange Creamsicle Yogurt Pops. No matter what you call them, they’re easy to make, fun to share, and really good.

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After making — and enjoying — these treats, my imagination ran wild with thoughts of so many other delicious “pops” I could create.

The process is simple.

  • Yogurt — with or without fruit.
  • Juice
  • Light syrup
  • Flavoring

With these simple ingredients, a world of wonderful frozen treats awaits.

Here are three I’ve come up with.

BLUEBERRY POMEGRANATE POPS

2 Cups Blueberry yogurt

1 Cup Pomegranate juice

1/3 Cup Light Karo syrup

A sprinkle of ginger and a splash of vanilla.

STRAWBERRY PEACH BANANA POPS

1 Cup Frozen strawberries, peaches, bananas (blended in food processor)

2 Cups Vanilla yogurt

1/3 cup Light Karo syrup

Splash of orange juice

Splash of vanilla

TROPICAL POPS

2 Cups Pina Colada yogurt

1 15.25-ounce can Dole tropical fruits (blended in food processor until smooth)

1/2 cup “Simply” brand Tropical drink

1/3 cup Light Karo syrup

Pinch of ginger

Splash of vanilla

Note: If I’d had a bit of shredded coconut, I probably would have tried adding in a bit.

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Whatever variety you make, the process is simple. Blend it all together, pour into popsicle molds, and freeze for about 4 hours.

I’m already thinking of concocting a BLACK CHERRY POP for my next dessert using black cherry yogurt, frozen cherries, and probably a little cream in place of the juice.

Or how about LEMON POPS? I’m planning to try lemon yogurt with a bit of lemonade. Or I might get truly adventurous and try making both LEMON POPS and LIMEADE POPS and alternating the colors in each single mold.

And one day, I’ll have to try CHEESECAKE POPS using a “Cheesecake” flavored yogurt. Or maybe I’ll grab another favorite and have BOSTON CREAM CAKE POPS. I think those would be really good rolled in graham cracker crumbs or wheat germ after taking them out of the mold. What do you think?

Of course, I’m thinking, too, about different flavorings to use. Or maybe using pudding mixes. CHOCOLATE MINT POPS would really be cool. Hmmm…maybe adding in crushed cookies would be fun. Or adding chopped nuts to the molds before pouring.

So many sweet treats to make! As long as we’re having hot summer days, you can be sure I’m going to have dozens of these delicious pops in the freezer.

I’d love to hear your ideas for new POPS treats!


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National Cowboy Day

Grab your boots, girls! Saddle up those ponies and get ready to ride…right on over to the National Cowboy Day celebration on Facebook.

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Click HERE to join the event.

This fantastic event to celebrate “the heroes of the west” will be held on Saturday, July 25. It’s an all-day event, so drop in whenever you can.

OVER FORTY WESTERN AUTHORS have joined together to give YOU the opportunity to show your love for those hard-working cowboys and win great prizes, including a $200.00 GIFT CARD to BOOT BARN.

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Individual authors will also be doing giveaways, so you’ll have over forty opportunties to win prizes from your favorite western writers — including me!

Check out the list:

Victoria Vane

D’Ann Lindun

Susan Fisher Davis

Natalie Alder

Sidda Lee Rain

Lori King

Sylvia McDaniel

Lexi Post

Cheyenne Meadows

Kymber Morgan

T.J. Kline

Hildie McQueen

Callie Hutton

Tamara Hoffa

Desiree Holt

Kathleen Tighe Ball

Em Petrova

Amie Stuart

Gem Sivad

Christina Cole 🙂

Randi Alexander

Kathleen Rice Adams

Marie Tuhart

Rhonda Lee Carver

Donna Michaels

Amanda McIntyre

Steph BergetBochenek

Becky McGraw

Beth Ciotta

Kirsten Lynn

Holly Rutter Bush

Jacquie Rogers

Syneca Featherstone

Ken Farmer

Maddie James

Parker Kincade

Diane Nelson

Rebecca Schaefer

Caroline Clemmons

Michelle McLean

Beth Williamson

Jessie Evans

Sandy Lea Sullivan

Lilly Christine

Brenda Jernigan

Jacqui Nelson

Sara Walter Ellwood

Can you tell that I’m excited to be part of this special event? I am. I was thrilled to be invited as an author, and I’m looking forward to seeing many of my readers there. I’ll be posting early on Saturday morning, giving you a chance to win one of the books from my “Sunset Series”. Be watching and be ready to ride…off into the sunset with a handsome cowboy hero.